Love and friendship between a guy and a female


Having a gf doesn’t only destroy the family members, it ruins culture, and people that do this are threatened aided by the punishment and wrath of Allaah. Love is just a vomiting that ruins one’s heart and results in evil and immorality. The Shaytaan could keep tempting them and pressing them until they commit immoral actions and therefore each gets exactly what he/she desires through the other.

There are lots of forbidden things related to this, such as for example transgressing contrary to the honour of other people, betraying trust, being alone with an associate for the contrary intercourse, pressing, kissing, talking immoral terms, then your greater evil which does occur at the conclusion, that is the sin of zina.

The fact the questioner claims “no one is aware of us” is strange. Just how can he just forget about his Lord that knows what exactly is key and what exactly is yet more concealed, and whom understands the fraudulence of this eyes and all sorts of that the hearts conceal. (cf. Ghaafir 40:19).

Our advice to you personally, that he is watching; fear Allaah concerning people’s honour; strive for the Day when you will meet your Lord with your deeds; remember the scandal that may happen in this world and the Hereafter as you are still young, is to discipline yourself to obey Allaah and always remember. Keep in mind you like for one of them what you are doing with the daughters of the Muslims that you have sisters and will have a wife and daughters, so would? The solution is that you’d most certainly not want it, as well as other people don’t like it either. Keep in mind that you might look at outcomes of your sin in certain of the members of the family being a punishment for you from your own Lord.

You must try to find righteous buddies, along with to help keep your self busy doing that which Allaah loves and it is happy with. Look closely at the very best and a lot of sublime things and then leave alone the worst and a lot of things that are vile. Take full advantage of your youth in obeying and worshipping Allaah, searching for knowledge and calling other people to Allaah. Keep in mind that there have been those of the age and more youthful have been males that has memorized the Qur’aan, who desired knowledge, who the Prophet (comfort and blessings of Allaah be upon him) delivered to phone other people to Allaah and also to go into the faith of Islam.

We give you advice to have hitched to a righteous, religiously-committed girl that will allow you to stick to your religion and encourage one to stay glued to the laws and regulations of Allaah, that will care for your young ones and bring them up with good morals and commitment that is religious. Provide up this girl who agrees to head out with a person that is a stranger to her (a non-mahram) and satisfy him and keep in touch with him; if she agrees doing immoral actions now then what’s going to avoid her from continuing to do this as time goes by?

Remember that you’re angering your Lord with such sins to be alone together with her, meeting her and conversing with her, and any other thing more than that is much worse.

You should understand that zina doesn’t just include the parts that are private instead the eyes may commit zina, the ears may commit zina, the hand may commit zina plus the base may commit zina, because had been proven through the Prophet (comfort and blessings of Allaah be upon him). All that results in the zina associated with the parts that are private. Therefore do not allow the Shaytaan deceive you, you who wishes you evil and tells you to commit immoral actions for he is an enemy to.

Shaykh Muhammad al-Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen said:

Contact between fans in poor and illegal means is just a calamity and a disaster that is real. It isn’t permissible for the guy to make contact with the lady in this full situation, or even for the lady to make contact with the person. Then he must tell her wali (guardian) that he wants to marry her, or she should tell her wali that she wants to marry him, as ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) did when he offered his daughter Hafsah in marriage to Abu Bakr and ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with them) if he says that he wants to marry her,.

If the girl contacts the guy straight, here is the supply of fitnah (temptation).

As’ilat al-Baab il-Maftooh (Question no. 868).

The fact that such stories existed among those who came before us cannot be taken as proof with regard to shar’i rulings, because the rulings of sharee’ah having to do with what is forbidden and what is allowed are to be taken from the shar’i evidence of the Qur’aan and Sunnah, and the commands and prohibitions contained therein with regard to your question about such forbidden relationships in the ancient love stories.

Some of those mentioned in these stories arrived before Islam, such as for example ‘Antarah yet others, and stories that are such to be located in other cultures as it is distinguished. But we can not just just take shar’i rulings using this because Islam arrived to forth bring people from being managed by their wants to finish distribution to Allaah the father associated with the Worlds.

We ask Allaah to steer us and you also and to give us energy.